Barriers, why do we put them up between ourselves and others? Why are people so hung up on the way others perceive or feel about them. Going on from my last post, it is like we must all realize that our relationship with everyone is different in this world. We are not perfect and we do not get along with everyone. It is up to us to accept this, break down those barriers and enjoy what we do have with others.
We must stop putting barriers between ourselves and others, there is no problem, this is just the way our relationship is with that other person. There is no problem, people in the world have different relationships with different people. One example is that someones mother, son relationship is different to someone else's mother son relationships, we have to accept that and the sooner that we do accept this the better we will feel in ourselves and the easier that relationship will become. We must not distract ourselves by putting up barriers or feeling that this is wrong, it should be a certain way or that it should be better. This is not to say that we shouldn't strive to improve, get to know that person better or what not. Still love them, learn from them but accept that some relationships that you will have in your life will be different to others.
Just accept that this is the way it is, and in a strange way you will start to realise how things between the two in that relationship will naturally fall into place. So relax, live life, be greatful for what is right in front of you, not what was yesterday or what you think is tomorrow. Just enjoy this moment, this second. Like someone always told me. IN ROOZ-HA BAR-NEME GARDE! (Persian for "These days will never return")
Any way i know this blog might be making you hurt, angry, sad, happy all at once, making you think and realise certain situations/relationships in a certain way that you have never before thought about.
Just remember Live today, not what was yesterday, what you think will be tomorrow, be thankful for what is right in front of you!
We must stop putting barriers between ourselves and others, there is no problem, this is just the way our relationship is with that other person. There is no problem, people in the world have different relationships with different people. One example is that someones mother, son relationship is different to someone else's mother son relationships, we have to accept that and the sooner that we do accept this the better we will feel in ourselves and the easier that relationship will become. We must not distract ourselves by putting up barriers or feeling that this is wrong, it should be a certain way or that it should be better. This is not to say that we shouldn't strive to improve, get to know that person better or what not. Still love them, learn from them but accept that some relationships that you will have in your life will be different to others.
Just accept that this is the way it is, and in a strange way you will start to realise how things between the two in that relationship will naturally fall into place. So relax, live life, be greatful for what is right in front of you, not what was yesterday or what you think is tomorrow. Just enjoy this moment, this second. Like someone always told me. IN ROOZ-HA BAR-NEME GARDE! (Persian for "These days will never return")
Any way i know this blog might be making you hurt, angry, sad, happy all at once, making you think and realise certain situations/relationships in a certain way that you have never before thought about.
Just remember Live today, not what was yesterday, what you think will be tomorrow, be thankful for what is right in front of you!
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